Wednesday, 5 December 2012

Girls r Inferior


People have shortened their clothes, reduced manners, diminished feelings, pity and life but still have not left that traditional Indian sentiment which needs to be eradicated. Girls are as much worthy and strong of doing anything a guy can. We have Kalpana chawla, Saorijini Naidu, Lata mangeshkar, Indira Gandhi, Rani Laxmi Bai, kiran Bedi, arundhati roy, and many more who have shown the glories they can bring. However, they contribute to just 0.1% of Indian society, so what about the rest 99.9%. Are girls really inferior to guys???

Let’s look over some facts and then it’s over you to decide.

A girl never proposes a guy. How much she may be in love with him she always waits for the guy to turn up (Few exceptions are everywhere). Girls you need to overcome this if you really wish to gain power in this society. If you can’t express love how can we expect you to express something else? Love is the basic need of life, even more than money. Yes it is. You let guys dominate here and we will dominate you everywhere. So if you want to shut the mouth of the few dumbos who can’t accept defeat from you just go and confess your love to your dream boy. Let everyone know that you can even choose among guys instead of just rejecting them.

Restaurants are a lovely place to go when bill is paid by someone else. Generally we see a lovely family or cute youngster couples there with occasionally given company by a bunch of goons during one of their birthdays. I never understood how one can become a gentleman by paying bill for a girl you met few hours ago but sharing the bill with a childhood guy friend. I would only do things free for others if I have to show them that they are nothing in front of me. Every time a girl lets a guy pay the bill for her without any occasion she allows him to believe that he is superior to her.

To gain fame, money and success all we need to have is a little bit of talent and lots of hardwork. Every single time a girl uses her beauty instead of her talent and hardwork to climb the stairs of success she losses. She reminds us that she needs us to do the favour. She loudly says that yes I need someone above me to help me when I am at fault or stuck somewhere.

The insecurity girls feel in the crowd made of guys. A guy may feel shy with a bunch of girls but not insecure. The fact remains that if a girl is in a crowd of guys, she may pick a random guy and starts scolding him and then let the mass beat that guy black and blue without inquiring if he was at any fault. Still it’s the girl who would feel insecure proving that they are inferior.

Enough of this, I would though acknowledge that atleast there is one thing girls do to prove that they are not only superior to guys but guys are not going to match them in this field in nearby future. They cry. Crying is not a cowardly thing to do. Rather it is a tough job because you let everyone know that you were hurt. (Girls don’t take advantage of this; guys have been used many times with tears including me). Guys think they are too strong so they can’t show people that something terrible which has accelerated their heart beat and is eating them inside can hurt them. Girls very easily show people that yes, I was hurt and I am proud of it because it shows that I have a heart. I respect them for this because otherwise I believe that GIRLS, YOU ARE INFERIOR.

17 comments:

  1. Quite a debatable topic, though it does give an insight to what the truth is! After reading this, though a girl may burn in anger, but somewhere in her heart she'll realise that the above said words are true! + It gives us a way to improve upon ways that are knowingly or unknowingly making her feel inferior! I really liked that restaurant wala example! :) Good work! Keep writing! And debate to hogi ispe! :P Par exam ke baad!

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    1. Waiting for the exams to be over then...

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  2. "I would only do things free for others if I have to show them that they are nothing in front of me." ... bhai ye statement thoda negative and egostic laga ... baki its ur view point ..its gud dat u are able to express them...mine is dat everyone is equal and everyone helps each other ...aaj k time mein kaun sochta hai ki kaun inferior and kaun superior!!!..there is a saying "zaroorat k time gadhe( inferior) ko bhi baap banana padta hai" and i believe it works for both girls n boys ... keep up ur writing work all the best ... :)

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    1. kkk, may be i went along with emotions writing those lines... :P
      Even i believe that everyone should be equal, my only motive was to let people know that times have changed, so we need to change our thinking. Making it simple i believe that girls r still inferior but not because of the reasons that were there 10 years ago, but because of the mentality of the society these days. I never said girls can't do but they r doing things which make them inferior. GIRLS you need to rise up...

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  3. "very nice point brother.on one hand evryone talk about women empowerment and there are soo many organisations and people working for the same.on the other hand girls take advantage by treating themself as a weaker sex for getting quick favours,sympathy easy ways to sucess(ofcourse there are exceptions to this).we do all the lil things mentioned above like paying at restaurants not to prove them inferior but its a gesture of pampering them but yup some girls do take it as granted.vey nice point brought up in a great way..excellent piece of writing!!keep writing :)

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    1. thanx, i just meant to remind girls that u r not inferior anymore but u still do things which are not ethical by giving the excuse of weaker sex. I think you got my point.

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  4. @saumya ur view point is quite appreciable..specially jarurat ke samey gadhe ko bhi baap bnana padta he..so u accept that girls do let themself treated inferior juss to gain favour.can you give example for the same for boys???

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    1. well i m just saying everyone needs someone else ,some or the other day.I myself can't consider anyone inferior or superior.This thought just lies in person's own perspective and the way he/she feels about himself when he/she compares him/herself to others.

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  5. before i write anything else i would fist like to commend your piece.good one.although it will enrage a girl,it is not offensive and of course i can see the hidden motive in your writing of encouraging girls and of warning them against the activities some girls indulge in and that too knowingly which is certainly unethical. i do agree with some of your points but there are issues i vehemently disagree with.
    you know i have come across many male chauvinists who in some or the other way try to prove that girls are inferior.it infuriates me but i generally ignore them because i dont argue with those whom i consider stupid.but since you dont fall in any of these category,i thought of keeping my points. i have nothing to do with your first point-not of my interest but yeah i have seen girls proposing to guys myself.moving on to your second point-girls let guys pay restaurant bills. although i never do this and i have seen many who pay in front of guys,i concur with you that some girls like eating for free and i despise them.but i have also seen many times that when girls want to pay,a guy's ego gets hurt.why is that so? when a girl is willingly paying,keep your egos aside boys and let her pay.
    i have a problem with your third point.firstly,cant a girl be both beautiful and talented? and in that case how are you going to figure out that the girl used her talent or her face value.secondly,i think you agree with me that its mostly the males who choose a girl for her looks and if that is so i dont think there is much of a difference in the standard of the mind of those girls who gains an upper hand because of their beauty and those guys who recruit them on that basis.get rid of that practice and i assure girls will have to leave theirs.
    lastly,girls feel insecure in the crowd made of guys.rack your brain again sir that why is it like that?i am sure if that 10 guys would be you no girl will ever feel insecure but unfortunately it is not so and a girl is bound to feel insecure in that situation.and the fact that a girl can choose any random guy from a crowd and can get him beaten without the guy even getting a chance to explain his position is flawed.a girl does not choose a random guy.there are forbidden things done in crowds and if a girl is daring enough to speak about that,i think you should appreciate that because that is not a sign of inferiority rather it is of breaking the shackles of inferiority.
    my motive for writing this was not to debate with you on this topic or anything like that. i just wanted to bring in my points too. i understand your view point but at some places you should also see it from a girl's stand.in this male dominated society, the girls need the support of twenty first century guys who are educated and enlightened ones.if you will also call them inferior ,their hopes will be shattered yaar.;)conclusion thoda better hona tha but i got bored of writing and and bhavnao me beh ke zyada hi bada likha gaya but anyways enjoy reading and i really liked the way you have written. :)

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    1. Its gud, i think u should try to write something on ur own. And instead of ssying what will happen if guys like me will also say this, you should have written something to shut my mouth up. thts where the problem lies...

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  8. hey bro ... nice lines from u ...
    but actually its more about nature of the person ... girls are girls .. boys are boys
    thats the beauty of the opposite ... night and day , hot and cold , girl and boy ... this beauty of opposite ... is that creates life :)
    so be cool and accept girls as they are .. enjoy the difference between the two genders .. ab gal ko propose karna , gal k liye pay karna ... yeh sab lovely experience kyun miss kiye jaye :D

    but both for boys and girls i would also say ... change for better is always good :)

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    1. i have been always in favour of girls. Girls n guys r totally different and almost every one of us think that girls can't do some things like guys. Though only very few will say that they think like that.
      i am just giving the reason for their thinking like this.

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